Hey Sweetheart!! 😍 ✨
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL NEED FOR THIS RITUAL:
▫️ A Glass of water (to keep hydrated ☺️)
▫️ Your notepad and a pen
▫️ 30-60 minutes, in which you won’t be interrupted.
▫️ This Ritual should be done at the peak of the New Moon, however if you’ve just missed it, do this ritual anyway, as the Universe is always there to pick up your desires ✨
▫️ I’ve created New Moon Wishing Worksheets that are designed to be used for this Ritual – You can also hang them into your room, as a reminder to use your Affirmations afterwards! 😉
✨ SET YOUR INTENTION ✨
When starting to get ready for your ritual, set the intention, of designing your future life, based on your core values and desires.
✨ CREATE A SAFE SPACE, WHERE YOU FEEL 100% COMFORTABLE ✨
You may want to play some lovely music in the background, light a candle, burn incense or use an essential spray etc. whichever you prefer or nothing at all…it’s very important you feel 100% comfortable and able to relax and if this means not lighting a candle, thats perfect too…enjoy this moment as much as possible. 💖
✨ GATHER YOUR WISHES ✨
To begin manifesting, you’ll need to be very clear about what you want. The more detailed your wishes are, the better and more powerful you’re able to make your visualisation in this wishing ritual.
If you’re feeling anything like me in 2016, I had the flexibility to re-discover myself but the thing was, I didn’t actually know what that was or even what I enjoyed anymore, as I had just become a mum and looked after everyone else and simply lost my sense of identity.
Today is the 11th of April 2021 and I realise how much I’ve evolved and learned since then, including how I can manipulate my own thoughts, to enable me to figure out what I enjoy or how I want to feel and what I want for my future and now it’s your turn.
Let’s get started with this List of 11 Wishes: ✨
Sometimes, in order to know what you want, it helps to think about what you don’t want to experience first 😉
When you have established what you don’t want, you can flip it into a wish (see example below) and add it to your wish list.
For example: I don’t want to loose my home, or run out of money/food etc.
So your wish could be:
“I wish for a beautiful home that gives me comfort. I wish for a solid stream of income to pay for everything I need and more”
Continue writing all your “don’t wants” into your notepad and convert them into wishes, like in the above example, then add these to your worksheet.
For you to be able to choose what you want for your future, you could think about those people in your life, that you look up to..what is it that they have, that you would like to have too?
…if you catch yourself being jealous of others, don’t beat yourself up, simply send them love, they are deserving of what they have and you are deserving of that too…use these feelings to your advantage by using them as a guide to manifest your own individual goals too.
Look at your complete network of people, including family, friends, clients, colleagues but also the people you follow on social media (although we know, that we only see what we’re meant to see on social media don’t we 😉)…is there anything they have that you want to have too?
I’m envious of people, who have a successful online business, that allows them to be very flexible as to were they live in the world and that provides them with a great income for what they need and more…so write into your notepad:
“I wish to have a successful business that … etc.”
Lastly look back at positive experiences from the past, who were you with, what did you do?
I have really fond memories from past holidays, one of them when my husband and I travelled to Barbados and got married spontaneously during our holidays 😆 So I’m wishing for lots of holidays every year, including weekends away and to travel overseas too.
Write the experiences that you enjoyed in the past into your notepad and create wishes accordingly.
By now you probably have a long list of wishes to hand, which is amazing!
Take 11 of these wishes and write them into your worksheets. Decide what you can commit to doing in order to make your wishes come true. ✨
✨ VISUALISATION ✨
In the previous steps you’ve already been visualising your future to an extend but now we are going to take it to the next level.
Have your wish-list to hand and start reading your wishes… give each wish some time to reflect on it.
As you read your example, close your eyes and feel into how it would feel to enjoy your wish right now, as if it was already in your life right now…how would you feel?
Here is my visualisation as an example, to give you an idea…As I feel into my wish & future life, in which my family and I have a personal chef in our dream home (Kardashian Style)….I find myself meditating in my minds eye, feeling relaxed and very content with life in general, suddenly I notice a beautiful smell lingering in the air…it comes from the kitchen. I hear my chef singing beautiful mantras, whilst listening to the most beautiful binaural beats as she finishes cooking my families lunch…suddenly I hear her say: Lunch is ready…I take a few more moments and walk into my dining room where my family is already sitting and enjoying the beautiful views of the ocean and mountains…in that moment our chef is bringing our meals and we have a wonderful meal together as a family enjoying life, Kardashian Style…! 😂
✨ CREATE SUPPORTING AFFIRMATIONS ✨
After spending some time visualising each wish and feeling into it, as if it was already your reality, create positive affirmations that support your wishes…for above visualisation it could be for example:
✨ I enjoy hearing my chef prepare a delicious and healthy meal from the heart in my kitchen for me and my family.
✨ My family and me enjoy being cooked for
✨ I enjoy sitting with my family at my dining room table, enjoying the beautiful views and having m nourishing and healthy vegan meals cooked by our own personal chef.
Try to spend as much time creating these affirmations as you can, as the effectiveness will become more and more powerful for your wishes then write them into the available worksheets, which you can hang into your home as a reminder to repeat your affirmations.
✨ WHAT NEXT? ✨
Look at your wish-list and contemplate what step you can already plan to do now, which will support you to get a little closer to manifesting your wishes and write these into the “Next Steps” section of the worksheets.
If one of your wishes is to receive payments of £5000 on a monthly basis, to pay for everything you need and more…
…What could be your next goal, that will help get you to this point?
Ask yourself in your mind or outloud….then become aware of what comes to mind.
Consider if there is anything you could do in your job, or add to your life, that would generate another stream of income, or do you have a hobby that you could monetise?
✨ PRACTICE GRATITUDE FOR WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE ✨
When you establish the energy of gratitude within you, for things that are important to you, you create the opportunity for it to duplicate and to attract more of these into your life.
So let’s think of everything you are grateful for right now, go through every area of your life and write onto the last page of the worksheets…feel your energy expand, as you write it all down.
✨ DETACHMENT PRAYER ✨
When you are attached to your wishes and really want them to manifest, you create some sort of block subconsciously, that will make it very difficult for your wishes to come true…so grab your wish list and burn it safely to release the energy into the universe, as you burn it..visualise the magical energy flying into the universe and say below detachment prayer out-loud, it’s a slightly adapted version of Gabby Bernstein’s detachment prayer:
“I surrender my attachment to my wishes, and I allow the Universe to show me where to go and what to do to manifest them.”
Have you enjoyed this Ritual? – Then check out my “More Myself” Self-Love Challenge.
✨ PRINTABLE WORKSHEETS AVAILABLE BELOW✨
New Moon Wishing Guide – Worksheets
These are the printable worksheets for your New Moon Wishing Ceremony.